You know, life really has a way of humbling us. Nature will always coincide with all that’s around you to really humble you.
This is me who was really in love at some point in life, I was very happy and I would really brag about being in a relationship with my ex. To be honest those were the best days of my life. 🙂🙂 you know the way you always have someone checking up on you, always there for you, buying you gifts, having fun, we even reached at a point where we did matching outfit 😆😆but alas! Who’s God all that was in vain. They say everything on earth is vanity, but again it’s every girl’s wish to be loved by a guy.
Have you ever felt like your partner is rushing you or rather giving you pressure to do what you didn’t want to do? Well that may be the reason why they say “fall in love but carry your brain with you😉” This is a story for another day🙂🙂
In my single hood, I’ve learnt to be humble. I really didn’t have to brag about being in a relationship, it would have saved me lots of aftermath drama. Everyone is there asking what happened bla bla bla… It was too much😫😫. After my breakup I really asked myself so many questions ie was I not good enough for him, what did I do that really offended him, why did God take him away from me, he was the best, he was my soul mate already and many others and actually nothing was adding up. I felt like I had too much on my plate. I actually lost 2kgs during this period 😂😂
A friend recommended lots of books that I read and they really spoke to me. The best of all was “this is me letting go”.that book was an inspiration to me. I really tried to come into terms with what was happening to my life. Healing is very funny, there are days when everything seems okay and you’ve like really moved on but there are days when the wound still hurts like it’s a fresh cut. But all in all we still keep pushing.
So this was how I started my healing process, every morning instead of waking up to a “morning babe” text I would wake up and pray, read a verse then start off the day. I actually found a hobby, made new friends, focused on my studies, always went out(but you gotta be careful where you go and the people you hang out with)… This is just to divert the energy of anger and pain into something benefitial. Am still in the process of healing and I would say it’s not easy but it’s doable🙂🙂
Actually I wouldn’t advise for a next relationship immediately because it is during your single hood that you get to know yourself better, love yourself even more, try to figure out what exactly you want in life and things like that. You wouldn’t want to go bleeding on people who didn’t hurt you. So in the end make sure you’re comfortable with yourself before getting to let someone else in your life.
However,sometimes we block our blessings just because we’re holding onto something that God wants us to get rid of. Don’t be scared to make that step of letting go. Am not saying it’s easy because it definitely ain’t easy,but once you decide to take a step you’ll never turn back. Sis/bro take that step and let go of things that don’t add up in your life. With the help of God, He’ll give you the inner peace you deserve even during those hard times of letting go.
I pray and wish that we all would take a step and get rid of whats not important in our lives. Let Go!
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